As the line between social media and privacy continues to erode, I often think about these words by Gabriel GarcĂa MĂĄrquez, âEveryone has three lives: a public life, a private life, and a secret life.â Sometimes in social media, we intentionally or often, unintentionally, blur the lines between who we are (outward facing), who we are (introspectively), and who we want to be. A recent example of such a mistake is when former U.S. Representative Anthony Weiner accidentally published a…